In My Haste, and My Stupidity, I Nearly Blew It!

It’s true! Here comes a real personal and honest story. I’m not proud of this, but it happened. To me!

It was a normal day in my household. I had plenty to do. Places to go. People to see. Phone calls to make. Laundry to do. House to clean. Lessons to prepare. Dinner to think about. But I also had LOTS of text messages. emails, Facebook postings, blogs sites, and all kinds of socializing to do as well. Can anyone relate so far?

Just before I headed out the door to head toward an appointment (one that I must not be late to!), I thought I would take a few moments and check my “social media” sites, just in case someone had something important to say to ME! I was ready to “like,” to “love,” to “haha,” to “wow,” to “cry,” to be
“angry” or to “comment” to anything I read. I didn’t really have time to, but that is what’s expected, right? I admired pictures, laughed at a couple of funnies, but sorry, I will honestly admit that I bypassed anything in that moment that I had to read. I don’t have time to read you right now. I’ve got things to do. Can anyone relate?

Well, a few days prior to this, I had written two blog postings – “Hope in God” and “Did God Go Out to Lunch?” – both on the subject of having hope in God. I was happy with what I wrote and yet I wondered, “Would anyone read these articles?” I even encouraged friends on Facebook to visit my blog site and have a read. And yet I wondered, “Would anyone take the time to read these articles that I spent time thinking about and writing?” I hoped so, but right now I’ll just take a quick glance through the rest of these messages. Can anyone relate?

Someone did response!

A former student of mine, from years ago. I hadn’t heard from them for a very long time. Sadly in my haste, I brushed it aside. After all, I had things to do and places to go. Maybe I could send a quick emoji. But what? “Like.” “Love.” “HaHa.” “Wow.” How would I know which? In all honesty I hadn’t read their message to me. I was in a hurry. Didn’t have time. Had places to go and people to see. Can anyone relate?

I quickly skimmed through their message. It was too long. I didn’t really have time. Maybe later. Not now.

But then –

One word caught my eye! One simple word! And everything changed for me! What was that word?

SUICIDE! That got my attention. It literally screamed off the page at me. Then I took the time to read the entire message.

“Ms. Kathy, I just read your articles about hope in God. Hope? What’s that? I am writing to tell you that I have been hopeless for years now. It’s a long story and I don’t want to bore you with my life details. But I have been planning out my suicide for this afternoon. I had just finished writing my note to the family. But then, my computer started “pinging” – notifying me of a message received. I went to see who was interrupting my most important moment. It was you. But because I really like you and you taught me a lot over the years of knowing you, I took the time to read your message. Every word. I actually liked your message of hope. I cried at what I read. I am telling you now, Ms. Kathy, you helped to save my life this afternoon. I flushed the pills and called my counselor. I want God’s hope in my life again.”

No words! I have no words!

I sat and cried, sitting at my computer for the longest time. And yes, I missed my appointment. But that’s okay.

I feel very embarrassed and humbled right now!

What if, in my haste, I had just clicked the “like” icon? How awful, in my haste, I had “love”d it? Or simply said a passive “Wow!” Or, even worse, how horrible it would have been to have “ha ha” at that heartfelt message. In my haste, and in my utter stupidity, I nearly blew it!

I learned a very valuable lesson that day!

Can anyone relate?

And just so you know, I will read each and every text message, email, Facebook posting or blog that comes to my inbox. I will develop the habit of taking the time to read every word, no matter how long the message is. I will think twice before I automatically hit an emoji button out of convenience. I will respond to the person writing with dignity and thought. I will respect you, your opinions and your funny pictures. I will do that every time, because YOU matter to me!!

4 Comments on “In My Haste, and My Stupidity, I Nearly Blew It!

  1. Well, I am going to give you a “wow” emoji right now…. What a powerful message! I think there is a lesson here for all of us. Social media makes it too easy sometimes to blow off a comment or post that has real meaning. Thank you for this real life story Kathy.

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  2. It is so sad how our busy life gets where we feel like we have to rush through everything! We miss so much! We could miss things that are so important and then we wonder what happened and why we didn’t know or see! This is so amazing to see how God put your in a place to have to stop! I am so amazed at how God gets our attention and says stop rushing and look what is necessary!

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    • Thanks April for sharing your thoughts on this article. And yes, it is sad that we are that busy that we miss the relationship building stuff of life. I am so glad for the valuable lesson God taught me through this experience. I just had to share it with others and hopefully they too will learn. It’s also been amazing what God has done in the students life since this happened. I love God and love to watch Him at work, doing the incredibly impossible! We have one awesome God!!


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